My Break Up Story

my break up story

My Break Up Story

Hi Guys, many of you will probably know that I went through a break up earlier this year.  I made a video of my break up story and what I learnt along the way.  If you haven’t seen that and would like to then just click the picture below to go and see.

my break up story

It has now been around 9 months since my break up and needless to say I am still learning.  I no longer have any kind of romantic feelings about my ex which is great but I can honestly say that I cannot picture myself in another relationship anytime soon.  I think after a break up, especially when you have been with that person for a long time it is important to spend some time alone.  To remember who you are alone, to do anything and everything you enjoy and to simply reconnect with yourself.  In my situation where I was cheated on I also need to figure out how I will trust a future partner again, the thought of that at the moment is a very scary thing.

I can however honestly say that I am the happiest now that I have been in a very long time.  Being out of that relationship has given me the chance to see the things I did wrong and learn from my mistakes.  I was unhappy in my relationship for a very long time but didn’t have the courage to leave, this is a mistake I will not make again in the future.

If you are going through a break up or know someone that is, trust me when I say it gets easier.  My life was flipped upside down as I also had to move and start off fresh.  I am grateful for this now.  Those feeling of pain, hurt, betrayal will slowly fade.  I would not dare to give a timeline as that is a very personal process and will differ for each person but I promise you it gets better.

Please share my break up story or my video with anyone in your life you think it could help.

I love you guys

xxx